Iâve been watching Beast Games. Go ahead. Judge me. As I watched contestants fight for a life-changing prize, I started wondering: What would I do with $5 million? Itâs more money than most people will ever see or earn. To put it in perspective, youâd have to make $125,000 a year (after taxes!) for 40 years to reach that number. So hereâs my question for you: If I handed you $5 million right now, would you know exactly how to use it? Most people think a sudden windfall would solve all their...
7 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Ever check your bank account and think, Wait⌠where did all my money go? Youâre not alone. Most people assume their big expensesârent, mortgage, car paymentsâare what define their financial situation. But often, itâs the invisible spending thatâs actually draining your money. What I see most often among those I speak with isnât reckless splurging on luxury itemsâitâs frequent, forgettable spending at places like Amazon, Target, and Walmart. Itâs convenience food delivery. Itâs random Venmo...
14 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
People say the key to financial stability is living within your means. But what does that actually mean? I worked with a client who made nearly a million dollars a year. By most peopleâs standards, he was wildly successful. But during one of our sessions, he admitted something that caught me off guard: âTyler, Iâd honestly rather make $300,000 and have a life. This isnât what I wanted.â Despite his impressive income, he felt trappedâby obligations, by expectations, by the lifestyle that came...
21 days ago â˘Â 1 min read
Hello, and welcome to another edition of me writing to you on a Friday evening and choosing to ignore the fact that I could schedule this to send at a time you're more likely to read it. But as usual, Iâd rather send it out while the thought is fresh. If this is not your jam, I give you guilt-free permission to swiftly and liberally smash the UN-subscribe link (https://preview.convertkit-mail2.com/unsubscribe). Recently, Iâve been reflecting on the challenge of knowing what you truly...
5 months ago â˘Â 2 min read
I used to be a money stasher. I'd put cash in little places around the house, including in books and boxes in the closet. I opened multiple bank accounts and stashed money in where I hoped I'd forget to look. I really enjoyed "finding" money later. It felt like a nice surprise, and I guess it made me feel financially secure in the back of my mind. My own little version of, "There's always money in the banana stand!" In 2014, I discovered a bank account with $4,000 in it that I'd completely...
9 months ago â˘Â 1 min read
I've worked with 74 clients since I officially opened my coaching practice 1 year and 7 months ago. That is crazy. Every single client has something in common. Not a single one of them cut back their spending. I never expected them to. And I don't expect you to, either. (Some would say it's impossible to cut spending.) Budgeting has a major branding problem. To most people, budgeting = restriction. Failed plans. Making commitments you cannot keep. Forget that. Boo, that! If I thought...
9 months ago â˘Â 1 min read
I recently replaced the home page of my website with two simple words: "Helpful conversations."* So, what does a helpful conversation look like? Here are a few I've had over recent weeks. A consultant working 60-80 hours per week realizes he'd be very satisfied making 30% of his current income in exchange for having a life to spend it on. A finance executive's stress visibly evaporates when he realizes he could be so much happier if he bought a house 10 minutes inland instead of right on the...
10 months ago â˘Â 1 min read
Hey friends, Sometimes I act like an immature brat. Unfortunately, this tends to happen in high stakes situations where it is least needed, least helpful, and most damaging. And, of course, the victims tend to be those I love the dearest. I really hate admitting that publicly, but I'm wondering if anyone out there can relate. Because I am aware of this ego-driven tendency of mine, I felt a lot of sympathy for a client who shared with me last year about his loss of faith in the religion he was...
11 months ago â˘Â 1 min read
Hey friends, All the BEST moments I have with my clients have something in common. Power. âĄď¸ I experienced such a moment this week. A new client had just finished organizing her spending categories and gathering all of her bank account information. She was looking at a number that represented all of the money she had to her name in that moment. She knew the number was accurate. And then I asked the question. âWhat do you want to do with this money?â I live for the reaction people have to this...
about 1 year ago â˘Â 2 min read