Why we feel lost sometimes 🤷‍♂️


A client and I had an insight this week as we chatted: we spend so much more in this life than our money.

We also spend our time and our attention.

We can spend our money, our time, and our attention in a “default” way, which tends to be the path of least resistance.

Or, we can spend with intention.

We use a budget to spend our money in alignment with our values.

We use a calendar to spend our time in alignment with our values.

We use a to-do list to spend our attention in alignment with our values.

Most of us don’t feel lost because we don’t know how to track our money, use a calendar, or write a to-do list.

Most of us feel lost because we don’t practice connecting our daily actions with our values.

If you’re feeling a little frazzled, a little lost, or lacking a little intention in the way you spend your money, time, or attention, I invite you to have an open conversation with me at no cost and no obligation.

Introducing "It's Not About The Money" - A Podcast by Steve Nay and Tyler Smith

My friend Steve Nay and I started a podcast two months ago where we talk about our experiences starting businesses while working full-time jobs. (Are we crazy? Maybe…)

Steve is an accomplished software engineer starting a tax preparation business, and of course I’ve started a one-to-one coaching business on top of my day job as a purchasing director.

We’re both brand new to podcasting and business ownership, so if you enjoy watching people learn from their mistakes, grab your popcorn. 🍿

Thanks to everyone who replies to these messages and shares their thoughts and insights with me.

Tyler

Tyler Smith

Personalized money coaching for high earners who wonder where their money went.

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